In 1957, Frank Sinatra conducted an album for Peggy Lee, called "The Man I Love". Peggy Lee: “The album was totally his concept. He brought me a long list of great songs from which to choose. Then Frank hired Nelson Riddle to write those lovely arrangements and Frank conducted them - a marvelously sensitive conductor, as one would expect. He designed and supervised the cover. He is a producer who thinks of everything - even putting menthol in my eyes so I'd have a misty look in the cover photograph.”

Sinatra helped Lee again, even more significantly, when she became seriously ill later in life. Tony Oppedisano: “Peggy wasn't in the best of health one morning when she had to fly out to New York on business. Things only got worse after her arrival, and she was soon hospitalized, gravely ill. Frank kept tabs on her from LA. He'd been worried about her making the trip when her health was so fragile. When he found out she was in the hospital, he talked to her doctor directly."

‘So what's the deal?’ Frank asked him.

The doctor told him, Well, I'm worried about her state of mind. She's very depressed because she's not home in her familiar environment.’

The doctor explained that Peggy was in a bad way – in strange surroundings, away from her loved ones, seriously ill, and desperately homesick. Frank offered to fly her home on his plane, but the doctor said she wouldn't survive the trip.

‘We've discussed that, but I've explained to her that it isn't safe. She has to be in a hospital environment right now.’

Frank said, ‘Okay.’

He made a few calls, and within twenty-four hours, he'd had his private plane completely reconfigured as a hospital plane, including the necessary equipment and medical personnel. He contacted Peggy's medical team and sent the plane to New York. An ambulance took Peggy's medical team and sent the plane to New York. An ambulance took Peggy from the hospital to Teterboro Airport. There, they put her on Frank's jet with a doctor and a couple of nurses and flew her home. Meanwhile, Frank had her home set up like a hospital room and made arrangements for 24/7 medical care. When the plane landed in LA, it was met with an ambulance and nurses, who brought Peggy home. It must have cost a small fortune, but Frank brushed away any mention of the money. The world didn't know about it, but Peggy and her doctor knew that Frank had saved her life.”

Peggy Lee sang about this at the Ella Awards in 1990 with special lyrics on the melody of “The Man I Love.”

Frank Sinatra about Peggy Lee: “Peggy and I met early in our careers when we both started out in New York, and have been great friends ever since. Her wonderful talent should be studied by all vocalists; her regal presence is pure elegance and charm.”

Peggy Lee about Frank Sinatra: “There are very few men in our business who have affected me so deeply I can't express myself, and Frank is one of them.”


Barbara Sinatra: “One of the best things about my husband was: if something went wrong in your life, boom, he was there. And if you had him on your side, it was like having an army at your disposal. Furthermore, he was on your side if you were right or wrong, and that is something very special in a friend; you don't find that so often.

Gregory Peck and Frank had always been close, and Frank called him Ahab after his character in Moby Dick. When Greg's son Jonathan died, in 1975, Frank was one of the first at his side. He did the same for Dean Martin twelve years later when his son Dino was killed in a plane crash. When Sammy Davis, Jr. lost an eye in a car accident; Frank went to see Sammy in the hospital and then brought him back to Palm Springs to recuperate. Sammy loved Frank, so even though he was depressed, just being with his hero helped get him through that terrible time.

Frank took friendship and loyalty very seriously and believed that true friendship could only be tested in times of need. People just had to get word to him and he'd drop what he was doing and go spend time with them. He'd travel long distances to brighten someone's day, and I went with him to numerous hospitals and homes for retired singers and actors to cheer up old friends. He took me to see Gene Kelly in Santa Monica when he was first sick and to the bedside of John Wayne when he was dying. ‘The Duke’ and Frank had been friends for years and were as close as brothers, even though they were diametrically opposed politically and kidded each other constantly about it.

Frank and Gene Kelly had been in several films together, and for "Anchors Aweigh" Gene taught Frank how to dance outside studio hours. Frank called Gene ‘the Irish taskmaster’ but he never forgot that kindness. Thanks to Gene, Frank could really move. He could even jump up in the air and click his heels together, and he loved to do that. He was also a terrific ballroom dancer, which was terribly romantic.

As Burt Lancaster once said, "If you say to Frank 'I'm having a problem,' then it becomes his problem."


Barbara Sinatra: “He was as soft as butter when it came to animals. He always had been. He'd stop someone treading on a bug by telling them, 'Hey don't kill the little fella. That's a pal of mine.' He was upset when I had one of our houseboys kill a rattlesnake up at Pinyon Crest after I found it hissing at Miss Wiggles. When we visited a friend in Acapulco who had a pet shark, Frank persuaded him to release it into the ocean. He loved cats too, and would sit in his pajamas doing a crossword with a sleeping puss we had named Bozo draped around his shoulders. When one of our King Charles spaniels named Melissa was run over by a hit-and-run driver outside our house, we were both terribly upset, but Frank placed an advertisement in the local newspaper appealing for witnesses. Luckily for that careless driver, no one ever came forward to ever identify him.”
Frank Sinatra with some of his many dogs.

Frank Sinatra was dining at an upscale restaurant in Los Angeles when he noticed a young waiter looking distressed. Sinatra, known for his sharp eye and ability to read people, observed the waiter speaking quietly with another staff member about something clearly troubling him. The singer, always curious about the lives of those around him, called the young man over and casually asked: “What’s on your mind, kid?”

Hesitant at first, the waiter admitted he was struggling to pay for his college tuition. His dream was to finish school and build a better future, but mounting costs had made it nearly impossible. He had taken extra shifts at the restaurant, working long hours just to stay afloat, yet it wasn’t enough. Sinatra listened intently, nodding as the young man explained his situation.

After a brief pause, Sinatra pulled out his checkbook and asked:“How much do you owe?” The waiter, thinking it was just a friendly question, hesitated before giving him the number. Without another word, Sinatra wrote a check covering the entire amount. When the stunned waiter tried to refuse or offer some form of repayment, Sinatra simply slid the check across the table and said: “Just do something good for someone else someday.”

The staff at the restaurant, accustomed to serving celebrities, had seen stars come and go, but this moment was different. Sinatra wasn’t looking for attention or public praise - he never did when it came to his charitable acts. He simply saw a kid in need and did what he could to help. The story of this moment spread among those who worked in the restaurant industry, becoming another example of Sinatra’s legendary generosity.

Sinatra’s reputation as a tough, no-nonsense personality often overshadowed his deep sense of loyalty and kindness. Those in his inner circle knew he had a soft spot for hardworking people trying to make something of themselves. He had spent his own youth in Hoboken, New Jersey, watching his parents struggle to make ends meet. Though he later achieved massive fame with hits like "Strangers in the Night" and "My Way," he never forgot the value of lending a hand to someone who needed it.

This wasn’t an isolated incident. Throughout his life, Sinatra privately helped countless people, from struggling musicians to strangers he met by chance. On another occasion, he reportedly left a $2,000 tip for a cab driver who had driven him across town late at night. Once, he paid off a struggling friend’s mortgage without being asked. He even sent money anonymously to hospital patients and war veterans who had no idea where the funds came from.

The young waiter who received Sinatra’s generosity never forgot what had happened that night. He graduated from college, pursued his dreams, and carried the lesson with him: a simple act of kindness could change a life. Years later, when he was in a position to help others, he followed Sinatra’s advice and paid it forward.


Tina Sinatra: “One day Dad took me for ice cream sodas at Rumpelmayer's, off Central Park. As we sipped away, we saw a mother and small daughter at the toy counter, in heavy negotiations over an ornate Madame Alexander doll.

"Mommy, please."
"I'm sorry, Sweetheart, but no, it's too expensive."

As the two of them left the shop, Dad smiled at me and said: "C'mon." He paid for the doll and lit out down the sidewalk. As Dad caught up to them, he tapped the little girl on the shoulder and presented the doll in its opened box. With eyes large as saucers, she grabbed it. The mother was so startled that at first she didn't see who it was.

Dad was like the Lone Ranger; he didn't wait around for thanks. We jumped into our car and were gone in a flash, though not before I caught the mother's stunned look of recognition. And oh, the expression on that little girl's face.”

Photo: Frank and daughter Tina backstage at The Frank Sinatra Show, 1958.

Frank, the legendary "Ol' Blue Eyes," and Barbara, his devoted companion, shared a bond that was as timeless as it was romantic—a love story that defied the odds and stood strong through the years.

Frank Sinatra was one of the most iconic entertainers of the 20th century. His captivating voice, charisma, and charm won the hearts of millions. But behind the fame, his personal life was just as eventful. By the time he met Barbara, Frank had already been through three marriages, each filled with its own drama and intensity. Yet, when Frank and Barbara's paths crossed, there was an undeniable connection that led to a deep, lasting relationship.

Barbara Sinatra, born Barbara Blakeley, was a former model and showgirl. Before meeting Frank, she had been married twice—first to Robert Oliver and then to Zeppo Marx, the youngest of the Marx Brothers. Despite her glamorous life, Barbara had faced her own challenges, including a divorce and raising her son, Bobby Oliver, on her own. But everything changed when she met Frank.

Their love story began in the early 1970s. Frank was immediately drawn to Barbara's elegance, kindness, and strength. She wasn’t just another woman in his life; she was someone who truly understood him, supported him, and loved him unconditionally. Their deep connection was clear to everyone around them. In Barbara, Frank found a partner who could stand by him through both the highs and the lows, someone who balanced his larger-than-life persona with a peaceful refuge from the chaos of fame.

On July 11, 1976, Frank and Barbara were married in a quiet ceremony, marking their commitment to each other over the glamour of celebrity. This marriage was Frank's fourth and final one, lasting longer than all his previous unions. Over time, their bond grew stronger, with Barbara playing a crucial role in Frank’s life, especially in his later years.
Barbara wasn’t just Frank's wife; she became an essential part of his world. She was by his side through every milestone, every concert, and every award. Their love was evident to all who saw them together. Frank, known for his often tumultuous relationships, found in Barbara a calm, stabilizing force. She helped him navigate life's complexities, and in return, Frank cherished her.

Their marriage was a partnership in every sense. Barbara supported Frank in his career and was deeply involved in his philanthropic efforts. Together, they founded the Barbara Sinatra Children’s Center, a cause close to Barbara's heart, dedicated to helping abused children. This was a cause Frank supported wholeheartedly, showing that their relationship was built not just on love, but also on shared values and a mutual desire to make a difference in the world.

As Frank's health declined with time, Barbara remained unwavering by his side, caring for him with devotion. When Frank passed away on May 14, 1998, Barbara was devastated, but she found comfort in their shared memories. Although Frank left her a significant inheritance, it was the lifetime of cherished memories and their enduring love that remained with her.

Barbara lived nearly two more decades after Frank's death, continuing to champion the causes they both cared about. She passed away on July 25, 2017, in Rancho Mirage, California, at the age of 90. Barbara was laid to rest beside Frank at Desert Memorial Park, ensuring that, even in death, they were side by side, just as they had been in life.

Their love story remains one of Hollywood’s most enduring, a testament to the power of true love, commitment, and partnership. The legacy of Frank and Barbara Sinatra continues to inspire, reminding us all that love can truly conquer everything.